MY THOUGHTS ABOUT SLURS…By Tamara Pettit

Bob Huggins is an icon in basketball and in West Virginia. I don’t know the man, but I did sit beside him on my way to San Diego via Charlotte about ten years ago. We didn’t indulge in conversation. I read. He had a few drinks.

But most of the people who know “Hugs” think he’s an alright guy and a superb coach. Therefore, his recent homophobic slur when speaking of an opponent in a radio interview stunned his supporters. He’s not the first who in a tense moment resorted to denigrating language about someone with different leanings. but he’s revered in West Virginia and one whose comments are met with much disappointment. He’s noted for being a role model for his players and the question now becomes “is he worthy of that role.?”

Why did he sink to denigrating his opponent by their sexual persuasion or religion? It 6 a.m. and I’m pondering why normally, decent people sink to that level. Do we speak from our hearts under times of stress? When day-to-day dealings mandate we show respect for blacks, gays and yes, women, does our politically correct head guide us while in our heart do we feel differently? Does the competitive nature of sports (and I consider elections of today a support as well) mean we throw all caution and decorum to the wind and it’s ok cause we’re worked up?

It’s not OK. My concern about accepting an apology from such a public figure and then allowing Huggins to go about his business, is: what was in his heart escaped for today…..and has the potential to escape tomorrow. And, West Virginia deserves better than that.

What are your thoughts?